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If We Want Grace, We Have to Give It
Cath de la Rambelje
Students give a lot on campus: time, effort, attention. Not every effort is met in kind. Students often complain about a lack of support from professors or leaders. Assignments pile up, group members miss deadlines and communication breaks down. Extending patience and understanding to peers and professors mirrors the kind of grace many of us are familiar with through faith: a simple but powerful act of reciprocity.
In academic settings, grace takes the form of professional courtesy. Professors balance teaching, grading and research, alongside their personal lives, while students juggle coursework, jobs and personal commitments. Miscommunications are inevitable. Responding to delays or misunderstandings with understanding rather than frustration creates a more constructive relationship. Both students and professors are held to their responsibilities, but interactions remain constructive and efficient. Respect and flexibility go both ways.
Shared living provides another opportunity for intentional grace. Roommates negotiate habits and boundaries often. Conflict is normal, but structured patience and clear communication turn friction into manageable situations. Checking in before borrowing items, completing agreed-upon chores and addressing issues calmly prevents tension from escalating. Grace, here, is practical. It does not excuse neglect or abuse, but it allows people to coexist respectfully.
Campus clubs and student organizations also benefit from a grace-first approach. Leaders and members alike make mistakes, miss deadlines or misunderstand instructions. Recognizing effort, offering guidance and forgiving minor lapses are forms of grace that keep organizations functional. Without mutual generosity, participation becomes transactional rather than community-driven.
Grace given is often grace returned. It is not a guarantee of perfect interactions, but it establishes a baseline of mutual care. In faith, God models this behaviour for us. In practice, we model it for one another. Repeated small acts of understanding, patience and generosity quietly, or perhaps not so quietly, shape the social fabric of campus life.
On campus, grace does not have to be extravagant. Choosing to give grace is an active decision, not a passive ideal. Students who practice it contribute to a campus that is functional, fair and humane. The moments when we extend patience and generosity may seem minor, but they create ripples. Over time, they define what community on campus feels like: not transactional, not perfect, but reciprocal, supportive and grounded in care.